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April 30, 2025
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Joan Herrmann
How Trauma Bonds Impact Relationships and What ...

A trauma bond is a deep emotional attachment that forms between a person and their abuser, typically as a result of repeated cycles of abuse and intermittent reinforcement. It is a psychological response to intense, often manipulative emotional experiences that create confusion, loyalty, and dependency — even in the face of harm. Unlike healthy attachment, trauma bonding is rooted in fear, shame, and control rather than trust, safety, and mutual respect. This type of bond can be especially difficult to recognize and break, as the relationship often swings between periods of intense connection and episodes of abuse or neglect.

April 24, 2025
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Joan Herrmann
Why People Act Like They Don't Care — What to ...

It’s one of the most painful feelings in the world: wondering if the people you care about care about you in return. Maybe they don’t say “I love you” often. Maybe they don’t check in as much as you’d like. Maybe they feel distant, distracted, or emotionally unavailable. Whatever the reason, when someone doesn’t show they care in the ways you need, it can leave you feeling confused, hurt, and alone. But here’s the truth: not everyone knows how to show love — and their silence doesn’t always mean they don’t care.

April 8, 2025
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Joan Herrmann
Dating Later in Life: Challenges, Changes, and ...

Re-entering the dating world later in life can be both exciting and overwhelming. For many, the experience brings a mix of emotions — hope, anxiety, self-doubt, and even frustration. The dating landscape has changed drastically (and that’s an understatement), and the confidence once felt in youth may now be replaced with feelings of inadequacy or fear of rejection. However, despite these challenges, later in life dating can also be an opportunity for growth, self-discovery, and yes, even love.

April 5, 2025
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Joan Herrmann
Four Strategies To Help You Grow From A ...

There is an old adage: breaking up is hard to do. Most of us at one time or another have suffered the pain of a broken heart. While we know that hearts don’t literally break, it can be hard to believe that’s true when a relationship has ended. It feels like the place that was once filled with love has been shattered to pieces.

March 25, 2025
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Joan Herrmann
Why Engaging with Others on Social Media Can ...

In today’s digital world, where the lines between innocent engagement and emotional betrayal are blurred, this situation raises an important discussion: When does social media behavior cross the line, and should it be considered a form of cheating?

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January 8, 2023
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Self-love: A Manifestation of Our Human Beingness

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January 8, 2023
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Self-love is an invisible connection with our whole beings, experienced or felt in varying ways on different days.

CYACYL
January 3, 2023

The Gift of Maybe

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January 3, 2023

Embracing the concept of “maybe” can dramatically improve our outlook on life, reduce stress and worry, and open the doors to hope and possibility.

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January 2, 2023
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The Truth of Life Unfolds in the Present Moment

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January 2, 2023
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When you are present to yourself, quietly watchful of the relationship that is always unfolding in the present moment, then you have no more need to prepare for what life will bring than a newly opened rose needs to ready itself for the warmth of the sun that comes to release its fragrance.

Joan Herrmann
December 5, 2022
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Just the Way You Are

Joan Herrmann
December 5, 2022
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If we don’t practice self love, how can we truly love another and participate in a mutually beneficial, healthy relationship?

Joan Herrmann
November 28, 2022
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Tis the Season

Joan Herrmann
November 28, 2022
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This time of year is a season that provides for us the opportunity to stop our busy lives for a moment and give thanks for our many gifts and blessings.

Joan Herrmann
November 21, 2022
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Remembering the Love

Joan Herrmann
November 21, 2022
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If you have lost a loved one or suffered a breakup with a spouse/significant other or friend, the holiday season is a constant reminder of the pain. 

Joan Herrmann
November 15, 2022
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A Season of Blessings

Joan Herrmann
November 15, 2022
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With gratitude, people acknowledge the goodness in their lives. As a result, gratitude helps us connect to something larger than ourselves. Research shows that having a connection to something bigger, even in times of challenge and change, makes us happier and healthier.

Joan Herrmann
November 11, 2022
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The Art of Healing

Joan Herrmann
November 11, 2022
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By embracing flaws and imperfections, we can create an even stronger, more beautiful piece of art.

Joan Herrmann
November 3, 2022
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Teaching Others How To Treat You

Joan Herrmann
November 3, 2022
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I’m not sure why people do what they do or why they don’t always appreciate the treasure they have been given, but one thing I know is that if I don’t love and respect myself, I should not expect others to!

Joan Herrmann
October 20, 2022
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The Privilege of Getting Older: Tips to Age with Grace

Joan Herrmann
October 20, 2022
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When we think about aging, our ideas may be somewhat outdated. We expect those getting older to slow down and move aside for the next generation. But, that doesn’t have to be the case.

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