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July 23, 2025
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Joan Herrmann
Disconnected: How Social Media Steals Time ...

In today’s hyper-connected world, it’s becoming increasingly common for people to spend more time on social media than engaging with their significant other. While this behavior may seem harmless at first glance — just a few minutes scrolling through updates or watching short videos — it can slowly erode the quality of connection in a relationship. The dynamics behind this shift are complex. Social media offers instant gratification, distraction from stress, and the illusion of social interaction. Unlike real-life relationships, which require emotional effort, patience, and vulnerability, social media provides a curated escape where a person can control what they see and how they are seen. This allure can be especially tempting when real-life relationships feel difficult, unfulfilling, or mundane.

July 17, 2025
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Joan Herrmann
The Power of Thoughts: How Your Mindset Shapes ...

When we consistently focus on what’s wrong, on fear, or on how we’ve been wronged, we begin to attract more of the same. Not because life is cruel, but because our mindset filters how we interpret and interact with the world. A negative thought pattern causes us to miss opportunities, expect failure, and radiate energy that repels rather than attracts.

July 1, 2025
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Joan Herrmann
Changing How You See Yourself When You Feel ...

Feeling unattractive is an experience that can sneak up on anyone—regardless of age, gender, or physical appearance. Whether it’s triggered by a glance in the mirror, a social media scroll, or an offhand comment from someone else, these moments of self-doubt can leave deep emotional imprints. Understanding why we sometimes feel this way, how it shapes our behavior, and what we can do to shift our perspective is the first step toward reclaiming a healthier, more compassionate self-image.

June 23, 2025
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Joan Herrmann
Starting Over: Moving On After Divorce and ...

I never saw it coming. One day, I was a wife with a future I thought was secure, and the next, I was alone—utterly, terrifyingly alone. My husband left, and with him went the life we had built together. I was left staring at the pieces, not knowing how I’d pay the bills, how to start over, or even who I was without him. The fear was overwhelming. I had wrapped so much of my identity around being a partner, a caregiver, someone who anchored a family. And suddenly, all I could see were the holes—emotionally, financially, spiritually. The weight of starting over felt too heavy to carry.

June 16, 2025
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Joan Herrmann
When Your Partner Doesn’t Want the Same Kind of ...

Few things are as confusing or painful as realizing that the person you care about doesn’t want the same kind of relationship you do. You may love them deeply, enjoy their company, and see a future together—but if you’re not aligned on the type of relationship you both want, it creates a fundamental tension that’s hard to ignore.

Joan Herrmann
April 22, 2025
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When You're An Option, Not A Priority: Choosing Yourself Instead

Joan Herrmann
April 22, 2025
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Being made an option when you’ve given someone your heart — whether in friendship, family, or love — cuts deeply. It evokes feelings of confusion, rejection, and even self-doubt. You start questioning your worth, wondering if you expected too much, or worse, if you’re just too much.

Joan Herrmann
April 15, 2025
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Should I Stay or Walk Away? How to Know When a Relationship Has Run Its Course

Joan Herrmann
April 15, 2025
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Deciding whether to stay in a romantic relationship can be one of the most difficult and emotionally charged choices you’ll ever make. It’s rarely black and white, but there are some essential truths to consider that can help bring clarity.

Joan Herrmann
April 5, 2025
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Four Strategies To Help You Grow From A Relationship

Joan Herrmann
April 5, 2025
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There is an old adage: breaking up is hard to do. Most of us at one time or another have suffered the pain of a broken heart. While we know that hearts don’t literally break, it can be hard to believe that’s true when a relationship has ended. It feels like the place that was once filled with love has been shattered to pieces.

Joan Herrmann
March 25, 2025
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Why Engaging with Others on Social Media Can Harm a Committed Relationship

Joan Herrmann
March 25, 2025
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In today’s digital world, where the lines between innocent engagement and emotional betrayal are blurred, this situation raises an important discussion: When does social media behavior cross the line, and should it be considered a form of cheating?

Joan Herrmann
March 19, 2025
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Kindness Begets Kindness

Joan Herrmann
March 19, 2025
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In recent years, many of us have experienced challenges like we never have seen before. Watching events unfold it is easy to think: I don’t understand what is happening; it seems like our world is upside down.

Joan Herrmann
March 12, 2025
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Conquer Your Fears

Joan Herrmann
March 12, 2025
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Do you often think about doing something different or implementing a new idea only to allow fear to stop you dead in your tracks without giving the opportunity a try?

CYACYL
March 5, 2025
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Never Look Down On Anybody Unless You’re Helping Him Up

CYACYL
March 5, 2025
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I’m often amazed at people who feel they are more important than others. Those who believe that their wealth, status, or whatever circumstance they create in their mind, entitles them to special treatment or reverence that others do not receive.

Joan Herrmann
February 27, 2025
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The Art of Letting Go

Joan Herrmann
February 27, 2025
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I recently went through an experience that was painful for me on a personal level. Something I was certain would occur, didn’t happen. I did everything humanly possible to make my wish a reality, but in the end, things didn’t work out as I had planned.

Joan Herrmann
February 26, 2025
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Choose Happiness

Joan Herrmann
February 26, 2025
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What makes happy people happy? Why is someone who goes through a tragedy or lives in a horrible situation happy, while others who seem to have it all are miserable?

Joan Herrmann
February 19, 2025
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Emotional Overload: Tips to Cope with Anxiety and Depression

Joan Herrmann
February 19, 2025
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We live in a fast paced world, seldom taking the time to catch our breath. Add to the general stress of life, a significant event such as losing a loved one, getting fired from a job, going through a divorce, or another difficult situation, and you have a recipe for emotional overload.

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